successful relationship of husband-wife

What is the relationship? 

       Relationship is an important word on which our whole life and our happiness are based. Even if we think deeply, a good and reliable relationship plays an important role in our success. Most important for all happy life. Require; A happy family - where all the people of the family live happily and peacefully, and a family where there is no doubt and confusion, a family where everyone trusts to each other.

      The relation of the whole family is called a large family relationship; Whose complete management and family prosperity depends on the happiness of one relationship and the power and trust of their mutual relationship. This is the relationship we are talking about. This relationship can also be a husband-wife relationship, a partner relationship. Are, whose happiness, mutual harmony and mutual trust can make a family happy and such a family can become the ideal family. We all dream of such a family.

How can we make the relationship happy and secure?

       Any relationship is based on love; The main purpose of which is - to give your partner all the happiness and goodness that he /she feels to be safe, increase self-confidence and that he /she will be able to achieve his / her goal and work. He / she do not feels lonely and bored. 

He should feel like someone is there; Who can listen to him, whom he can consider as his own, which he can make the purpose of his life and fulfill his purpose.

       But today such relationships are rarely heard. So what has happened now that we have forgotten the definition of relationships and their importance. If we search for them, we will find that we do not know to love, to love us is an enjoyment. The object seems to be and the feelings of mistrust are attached to both. And the result is that as soon as the partners meet; Negative and unwavering questions start to appear, never seem to have any attachment; In each other, it seems as if both are facing each other. Things come to an end - from a quarrel. At such times it seems that we are not having any relationship, we are facing an unwanted disaster.

       Relationship based on the  mutual relationship between Souls and bodies . Relationships are the valuable experiences through which all four of us experience love, empathy, happiness. We are social beings and we feel restlessness and loneliness all around us without good and trusted relationships. If the relationship is good and trustful If not, the family can never be happy, our growth depends on these relationships.

        Spouses complement each other, such as two wheels of a bicycle; The cycle cannot move with one wheel, similarly, unless the husband and wife are united by one principle and harmony, then this holy relationship cannot be successful either. Only love and faith can bring both together in this relationship.

        Honesty, trust and true promise in a relationship ensure each other's success. We have to protect each other's feelings, respect each other's wishes, take care of happiness. Negligence towards each other, each other. Ignoring the feelings and desires of people can be sour in relation. We have to respect each other, we have to forgive each other's mistakes; If we want to make the relationship stable and powerful, these are the main feelings and precautions; On whose strength a happy married life depends. We have to have positive thinking about each other. There is no place for fear, between love and faith. It is not that there will never be different views of each other. And there will be no doubt or doubt; But do not allow them to become cancers by pressing them, at such a time, we have to sit down together and solve them with cold mind, clear the doubts and forgive small and big mistakes for the future and forget them and create an atmosphere of peace.

       The main reason for the breakdown of a good relationship is doubt; Therefore, the suspicion will have to be resolved as soon as possible, accepting the mistake and going ahead of them. In a good relationship, ego has no place; It should never contain the feeling of "I am right - that wrong". There should be no difference of thinking, where every time you have to explain your words; Those relationships cannot be strong. We have to prioritize love, trust, affinity, give freedom to each other, so that there is room for good judgment and fearlessness. The relationship of husband and wife should be treated as friendship and not old negative perceptions. Like relationships based on.

        Love is the power that cannot be bound in any limit. If love will be true, surrender and faith in it, then such a relationship will be permanent and happy. Any relationship or success of love is possible only by effort, one side effort. Cannot be successful. In order to keep the relationship, we have to make compromises with positive thinking, important thing has to be forgotten. Both have to reconcile. Both have to give time to each other. They must talks openly with positive attitude and clearly.

If husband-wife relationship is to be strengthened, then following these things will have to be implemented :--

1. Never compare your partner to any other. It can hurt the feeling of intimacy and dedication, inferiority complex can develop in the partner; Which can take the form of a quarrel. If you forget, accept it yourself, finish it by explaining it. 

2. Never get the feeling that "if work is good then because of me and work gets spoiled, then don't bring it due to another"; in this holy relationship; otherwise the difference will increase.

3. Give time - 

    Be punctual, manage work on time. Give time to your partner, meet them well and if possible, they will also help them if they are troubled in your work. This will give you the sympathy, support and mental support of your partner. Your respect will increase in their eyes. Use social media to a minimum, spend this time with your partner, this will increase mutual intimacy and increase your confidence. Do not give time due to stress of work load due to busy work in the Tanner; So give them mental support, not say good and bad to them. 

4. Stop complaining and taunting. This hurts the partner's importance and their trust.

5. Never buy more than necessary and misuse the money, win the partner's heart by saving the partner's hard earned money.

 6. Always respect both your parents as well as your family. 

7. Trust the partner completely and forgive their small mistakes.

 8. Childcare is the responsibility of both. As far as possible; Do not bring office work at home; so that you will be able to give more time and support at home.

9. Always treat relationships as friendship, not give them any order; As if he is your employee. Do not always try to run your own, appreciate the feelings of the partner. 

10. Learn to forgive in the family. Keep maturity in relationships. Keep calm and show understanding. 

11. Do not give competition to any place; Respect each other wholeheartedly. 

12. Avoid everyday battles over the same thing (on small matters). Be good in the way of saying things, behave in peace, keep a flexible behavior. 

13. Do not have high expectations from your partner, you also have to understand their problems. No one is perfect, they have to cope with their weaknesses and give full respect and support. 

14. Give your partner full time and keep talking as far as possible. Keep in touch with the office through the phone. There should be positive thinking, trust and respect in the conversation.